As I read articles about talented college graduates unable to find work because the US job growth rate is not keeping pace with the college graduation rate, I speculate about the best way to define success for my 17 year old daughter.Is it a high paying job as doctor, lawyer, or stockbroker?Is it fame resulting from some remarkable talent?Is it her pursuit of one of my dreams - being a naturalist, an environmental engineer, or outdoor educator?Is it successfully competing with some local, regional, or national peers to be the best at something?Should I compare her to the athletes, musicians, performers, artists, and academicians in her school and ask her to be as good or better than they are?All such measures of success are perilous.How many doctors, lawyers, or hedge fund traders have...